Good Conversation, Letting Go of Baggage and Clarity Moving Forward. š¤
2022.01.28 00:06 TrixaBelle11 Good Conversation, Letting Go of Baggage and Clarity Moving Forward. š¤
My (30F) bf (38M) and I have lots of baggage associated with sex due to his low libido and my resentment, however we've both been working on restructuring our minds, letting go of baggage/fear and moving forward in a healthier way. So after a clear conversation today we agreed on me resuming initiation (I stopped because of past rejections) and him being more receptive as well as initiating more.
We discussed when he may be more down to get down, so I have more confidence initiating, and agreed that both of us initiating will increase the frequency (albeit he may still initiate once a month, I've come to accept that). My goal is to not feel any negativity towards being the main initiator and not judging his lack of initiation as a lack of his attraction to me (he claims that he's very attracted to me and I believe him).
It all comes down to accepting each other's differences, not coming to catastrophic conclusions (on my end) and allowing for inertia to build instead of resentment. Respectful and honest COMMUNICATION is obviously a central piece here too. I'm looking forward to a more consistent sex life and hoping that everything is going to work out. Not yet a success, but on its way!
Pray for usssss y'all š
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2022.01.28 00:06 superheroninja [Selling](USA) Yu Kurosaki R2 (SG2) 150mm Petty w/ Senko (fireworks) hammer pattern + upgrade Rosewood/Honduras hardwood handle
Link to Imgur Pics PRICE: $260 includes USPS priority 2 Day, will get it in mail same day as payment! CONDITION: BNIB A+ , never used or sharpened. Purchased new in Nov ā21 for $283 w/ receipt
This is a catch and release due to unforeseen family expenses. I very much looking forward to using this but Iāll have to stick with my generic kitchen knives for a while.
Very nice upgraded Rosewood and Honduras hardwood handle to create nice contract to the steel color.
Purchase with confidence, as Iāve sold on 10+ other subs. Please let me know if you have any questions.
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2022.01.28 00:06 Sufficient-Tie8506 Erik took home the wrong kid from the playground hey accidents happen.
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2022.01.28 00:06 Aptremi The Garden of Nurgle | Warhammer Fantasy
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2022.01.28 00:06 stalker2u Shackdaddy Challenge Fast Pass not working
Second time around and the Fast Pass challenge is not counting completed events!
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2022.01.28 00:06 geopede OME 1.5ā-2ā lift kit vs. Bilstein 5100s with new Springs?
The original suspension on my 2007 is pretty much dead at 150k miles. The recent addition of an ARB winch bumper has made things worse.
Iāve found that a set of Bilstein 5100s with pre-installed heavy duty springs costs approximately the same as an OME lift kit. The lift kit also has the HD coil springs pre-installed.
Usage wise, itās my daily, but Iām on permanent work from home, so I donāt drive it very far or every day. I do mild to moderate off-roading and camping.
Given my vehicle usage, which of these options makes more sense to you?
Iām open to other suggestions as well, but Iām not doing a Titan swap.
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2022.01.28 00:06 LetsPretendWeAreNumb How much of a crazy goal is it to be a pro ufc fighter?
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2022.01.28 00:06 ricecrystal Veterinarian that boards?
Hey all, I wonder if you might have a recommendation for a veterinarian that also boards dogs?
I have such a vet but might want to make a change, I am concerned my elderly dog isn't really getting the care she needs right now (I think they are very short staffed).
My dog can't really go to a kennel anymore when I need to board her so a vet who can do it is a must. Thanks.
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2022.01.28 00:06 garyboxphoto Question for the Reddit experienced
I am relatively new to Reddit. Can I respond with a photo in a comment? I tried it once and it simply posted a LINK. I'd love to post the actual image in the comments. Like a behind the scenes as a comment to the main image
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2022.01.28 00:06 ovenmeme1 A pretty good gift
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2022.01.28 00:06 TRUBOOBSMAN Liv vs Alexa (NXT)
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2022.01.28 00:06 soyluisosorio The secret is in the emotion
Nowadays we have many sources where we can find information about the LoA, some are good and others are just the diluted and condensed ideas from great concepts.
One of those concepts is affirmations.
People say we have to repeat affirmations many times in the day and they even give us schedules and repetition counts as if we were doing some kind of rituals.
But affirmations don't work as many people think, they are not magic spells that make things happen (unless you have the power to manipulate the universe around with ease).
The most important thing when we are using affirmations is the EMOTION. The feeling we get when we imagine having that which we are affirming for. That's where the real power comes from, not from the words themselves, but from you believing what you are affirming.
It doesn't matter how many times you repeat "I am a broccoli" you will never turn into a broccoli, because, well, you know that's not possible and your know those are just silly words.
Same thing happens when you don't believe what you're affirming, it doesn't matter how many times you repeat the affirmations, if you don't match your emotions with your vision, things will never move in the direction of your desire.
So, to finish, whenever you plan on using affirmations, start with ones that show progress instead of affirming you have the sun and the moon in your pocket.
Instead of "I am rich and abundant", say "My finances are better and better day by day".
Instead of "I have the job of my dreams", say "Each day I'm closer to find the job of my dreams".
Focus more on feeling each affirmation than in the quantity of repetitions.
Remember that to attract the things you want, you have to TRULY BELIEVE you can attract them.
Please let me know what you think about this, or share any personal experience that resonates with this message.
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2022.01.28 00:06 miraculous_beaver Worried about long distance for military
My (22F) boyfriend (19M) have been together for six months and we are so very happy and committed. We talk about plans for the future and marriage and baby names all the time. He has recently decided on going into the military next year and will have to be away for 6 months for training. I know itās a long time from now, but Iām decently needy in relationships and donāt know if Iāll be able to. I love him very much and am not about to put the squish on this because heās super excited. He is confident we will work out and have a future and that heāll propose when the trainings done, but Iām still nervous
I guess my question is how do I mentally handle that or prepare for this. I also trust him, but Iām worried heāll get bored after 6 months and forget about our connection. Does that happen?
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2022.01.28 00:06 Legitimate_Dog5662 Active33 pw: Asd3
Fantasy draft starting soon at 11pm est Will have to join discord or we can make a phone number group chat PS4 , not really any sweats just normal players
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2022.01.28 00:06 lagomorpheme "Undrowned: Black Feminist Lessons from Marine Mammals" by Alexis Pauline Gumbs encourages reflection on our relationships with other species
I just started this book and I love it. (If you've read Octavia's Brood, Alexis Pauline Gumbs is the author of "Evidence.") I'm learning so much from this book and it really invites us to consider our relationship with non-human animals. Just wanted to recommend it.
"The right whale, the rarest whale in the ocean, hunted nearly into extinction to (literally) fuel the colonial project. Blubber and light. Used to be a right whale could breathe for a century. Now that never happens. They rarely live five years without scars from boat propellers, rope wounds from tangled commerce. And it's not necessary. Boats could shift or slow their paths quite easily. You know what is necessary? Breath. Theirs more so than ours, truth be told. Yesterday I learned that the breathing of whales is as crucial to our own breathing and the carbon cycle of the planet as are the forests of the world. Researchers say, if whales returned to their pre-commercial whaling numbers, their gigantic breathing would store as much carbon as 110,000 hectares of forest, or a forest the size of Rocky Mountain National Park."
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2022.01.28 00:06 DirectBass2530 Christian Norberg-Schulzās Interpretation of Heideggerās Philosophy by Hendrik Auret
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2022.01.28 00:06 TrendingBot [Mildly Trending] /r/magicTCG - Magic: The Redditing (+303 subscribers today; 169% trend score)
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2022.01.28 00:06 svanapps Moomoo Releases New Data on Meme Stock Trading and Volatility, One Year After GameStop Short Squeeze
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2022.01.28 00:06 Tsuikyit_The_VIP Iām going to build a nest tonight
Hope my crush likes it
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2022.01.28 00:06 gananath [P] Probabilistic Memory Retrieval
I do deep learning as a hobby and I created this deep learning model after reading the retro blog post by Jay Alammar. THe main idea is to replace bert+database in original retro paper with a probabilistic model and sample from it.
write up: https://gananath.github.io/prob_retrieval.html
github: https://github.com/Gananath/probablistic_memory_retrieval
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2022.01.28 00:06 Rocinante1978 Elizabeth Turner
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2022.01.28 00:06 cool-kid111 how to stop feeling dumb during tutorials
tutorials have become a nightmare for me. i feel like everyone in tutorial sounds so eloquent and smart, while i seriously can never form a single good thought or idea or articulate anything that actually makes sense ... so i simply never speak and i know it will reflect in my grade. has anyone else ever experienced this way and was able to overcome it?? :(( i know it's probably just a matter of practice, but taking that first step to speak feels so hard.
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