UPDATE: My(23F) ex-fiancé(23M) and my sister(23F) had a baby. I'm not sure if I should meet or have a relationship with their baby.
2021.09.27 22:02 ThrowRA_003N UPDATE: My(23F) ex-fiancé(23M) and my sister(23F) had a baby. I'm not sure if I should meet or have a relationship with their baby.
Original Post
First of all I want to thank anybody that helped me with this. I was honestly confused about how I should approach this since my twin ''N'' has always been the brave and outspoken one, this was a huge, huge success for me and I thought that I should update this since I finally took my decision.
Before I want to address some of the questions, when I came back to check my post it was blocked and I was unable to do it, so here they go:
- Has my twin done something like that before?
- What are you doing with your life since you mentioned wanting to travel, work and study?
- Why didn't you leave sooner?
He never liked Richard, he thought that he controlled me so much, that he wanted a trophy and not a lover and that our economical difference would end up being a disadvantaged for me if I ever decided to leave him but before he got sick I had a blind in my eyes, my father was my favorite person and losing him allowed me to see things how they really were. I fell out of love but since my dad got a better ending that we could ever give him thanks to him and his family, I felt like I owed him for that and I stayed. I agreed to marry him because that's what Richard wanted.
A week before I talked to him I found one of my dad's letters from when I graduated high school, he told me how much he loved me and how he hoped my life was as amazing and as beautiful as every parent wanted, that N and I were his heart and soul and to always, always shoot for the best and never settle for less, that he'll always be with me no matter what. That was my wake up call and then I talked to Richard, you know how the rest went. I agreed to go to therapy but he fucked my sister.
I visited my mom yesterday because I knew that my ex and my sister wouldn't be there. I talked to her and told her pretty much everything, that I wasn't a pay coin for what he did for my dad and that N wasn't either. But that she made her decision and that I was doing mine now. I told her that if she wanted to play biggie house with them and have a happy family, that she could do it. I want to forgive my sister, I want to have a relationship with her. But not now. And that she couldn't force to do it because N knew what she was doing and that for now. I was done with them.
My mom said that she was sorry and that she's just trying to hold the family she had left together, she hugged me and promised that she wouldn't force me to do anything like that either, I showed her the letter and she cried.
I also made an appointment to therapy for this friday, is my first session and I'm so excited for this! I told N about my decision too and she said that she understood and to contact her whenever I want to. Apparently the same thing that made me fell out of love with Richard was the thing that got her, but you were right. Richard doesn't love her and only loves their kid.
I feel like I've a long way to go, but I'm on my way and I feel so relived, thank you all for helping me!
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2021.09.27 22:02 nomadic_birb My boyfriend has the worst hygiene I have ever seen in an adult, how do I confront this?
My (22F) boyfriend (30M) of three years has the most horrific hygiene I've ever seen in another adult person.
I have to ask him, many times, to take a shower. Without my nagging I assume he would go over a week between showers. We've been walking all over the city in a very hot and humid climate. We sweat profusely every single day, and because of this I shower every single night before going to bed. I can't imagine not doing it because that'd make me feel disgusting. Meanwhile, my boyfriend has showered once. ONCE!!! since we arrived last Tuesday.
It makes me nauseated, and I feel zero sexual attraction towards him because of it. He gets upset I don't want to have sex but I don't know what his sweaty, dirty genitals will do to me. Last thing I want is some sort of infection down there. I also just can't get wet to a dude who bathes occasionally.
He also uses mouthwash instead of brushing his teeth, and almost always has horrible breath. So my life is constantly either nagging him to shower or nagging him to brush his teeth! I absolutely hate this!!
I don't know what to do but I'm getting exhausted. There's just no excuse for being this fucking nasty IMO and I don't know how to make him as hygienic as I want him to be!
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2021.09.27 22:02 rainbowsforbrunch It takes two to let sleeping dogs lie
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2021.09.27 22:02 tronaldmcdump does anyone else suffer from narcissism in this community? (semi long/personal post)
Edit: fuck you all so much for your kind words and advice. you all are really awesome NPCs and have made me feel human for the first time in about two weeks (/s)
it is my right to post whatever i want, wherever i want, so here i go
i got into synthesizers and electronic music production in general when my band rocked my town out a few years ago. since then, i've written maybe 15 or so full impressive songs and some that i regularly enjoy as do some of my friends who have heard them.
problem is, i am REALLY narcissistic and writing is becoming an increasingly painful process for me.i own a roland gaia and a circuit rhythm (and bitwig) and have been trying to get myself to do something that everybody will genuinely enjoy and is the most influencial music ever (seems like everytime i get into a groove recently my brain says something like:"this is the coolest fucking thing anybody has ever made"). all are fans of me specifically, i accidentally sat down and basically re created "the cration of the universe" a few days ago and that really..fucked me up i guess because i was really enjoying it and thought nobody else could ever do anything remotely as cool as I have done.
i have a lot of self confidence when it comes to making music like this. i was a drummer in my band that split and melody really comes naturally to me too. does anyone else suffer from creativity and self pleasure on a regular basis and what do you do to overcome it? i've never been in this much of a high in my career as a musician and i've been doing music semi professionally for about 6 years now.when i get a song done that i truly enjoy and know is an original piece, it's the cleanest and greatest high i have ever known and i can ride that euphoria for days while also making new songs but recently i've finishes just a chord sequence or drum pattern without feeling like my soul is just being drained out of me and i cant wait to write my vocals, they will be flawless.
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